6 Tips to Overcome the Monster in the Closet: Procrastination

the monster in the closet I’ve been thinking about fighting procrastination lately. It’s one of the monsters I battle almost every day. Give me a distraction and I will embrace it like a lover. I can’t help it. Even if I actually want to do a particular project, nine times out of ten I will still procrastinate. It’s in my nature.

At the moment, I’m procrastinating about the novel I’m working on. I started out strong … the first three chapters practically wrote themselves. Nevertheless, every time I sit down at my computer, the monster comes out of the closet and sits beside me, whispering in my ear

What’s happening on Facebook (or Twitter)? or

I wonder what new properties have come on the market downtown (or in the south of France)? or

Whose turn is it in Words With Friends?

It is getting ridiculous!

So, I rifled through some old Feng Shui articles looking for advice, and I came away with some great tips to help deal with procrastination. If you’re reading this, you may very well be procrastinating yourself. If you are, think about what it is you are procrastinating about and how you can relate it to the following:

  1. First, determine if the thing you are procrastinating about is important to YOU. If it’s not, why even bother with it?
  2. Rethink your purpose. Are you thinking that you “have to” do it?  Just thinking that you “have to” do something puts a heavy energy on it. No one wants to do something they’re being told they have to do. You need to either find a way for it to be something you choose to do, or you can simply choose not to do it. Always remember that you are free to make the choice…..even if there will be consequences to face later.
  3. Don’t be a perfectionist. As a writer, that is my biggest energy drain. I want what I put down to be perfect from the start. So I don’t even start. Just do it! Once you begin, the energy will flow and you will have something to work with, even if it needs a lot of tweaking (or in my case, editing).
  4. Break large projects down into smaller tasks. For me, I know I can’t knock out the book in one sitting. I have to concentrate on chapters, or even parts of chapters. If you need to, say, get your taxes done (the “project”), start by collecting all your credit card receipts (a “task”). Allocate 30 minutes to the task. Then make a list of all the tasks associated with the project, and schedule 30 minutes a day to work on each of them. Suddenly, what once seemed daunting will now seem doable.
  5. Plan some fun time. Work it into your schedule so you don’t feel deprived. Whether it’s time alone, time with your friends or family, time to play games or surf the net – just make sure you make time for it. Then once you’ve done that, get to the 30-minute task that is associated with your project. When the 30 minutes is up, reward yourself by doing something you want to do (like seeing what’s popular on Pinterest).
  6. Stay motivated. If you need to, tell someone what you plan to do. That way, you become accountable, and you will be more likely to do it. Believe me, you don’t want to have to tell someone you spent the last half hour watching cute videos of  sleeping puppies instead of working on that outline.

Remember: procrastination can be overcome. People often procrastinate because they have started to think of what they need to do as something unpleasant. The negative energy associated with a project makes it harder and harder to accomplish. By rethinking your purpose – that is, thinking of your project as being something positive – and following the other tips above, you will be able to generate the good energy you need to get things done.

And 30 minutes? Totally doable! Anyone can do something for 30 minutes.

Now, where did that sneaky muse disappear to?

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Club Med – Vive Vacances!

Club Med Ad

One of my favorite places to go on vacation is Club Méditerranée, a chain of resorts that is not only strategically located but I’m happy to say it also has a history of following environmentally conscious practices. They have been a popular vacation destination for Europeans since the first one was introduced in Mallorca in 1950, a modest collection of straw huts with communal washing facilities that offered war-weary Europeans a place to get away from it all. Most American travelers have never even heard of Club Med. I suppose that’s probably because the primary language spoken in the resorts is French, but most employees also speak several other languages English.

A Short History…

All inclusive resorts

Club Med was the first all-inclusive resort. It was the brain child of Gérard Blitz, a Belgian water polo champion. His goal was to provide a vacation experience unlike any other: one which integrated the resort into its host country in the least obtrusive way possible but at the same time offered guests the opportunity to meet and mingle, to recharge, to be entertained, and to participate in a variety of activities. From the beginning, Club Med has adhered to the practice of sustainable development, always conscious of its impact on the environment. In the late 1990’s, the Club Méditerranée Foundation was created to encourage employees to participate in solidarity initiatives in the towns and villages near the resorts. There are currently more than 80 of them located all over the world, one of which is here in the U.S. in Port St. Lucie, Florida.

In the early years, most of Club Med’s guests arrived by train, traveling in cars that held eight people. Many of them would get to know each other on the way to the resort, so to further encourage the blossoming friendships, the tables in the resort’s restaurant were configured to seat parties of eight. The same holds true at Club Med restaurants today, and guests are encouraged to eat together. Club Med employees (known as GO’s or Gentils Organisateurs) also sit with the guests (GM’s or Gentils Membres), getting to know them and introducing them to each other. There is a real spirit of camaraderie at Club Med.

Club Med TridentThe first Club Meds were located near the ocean, thus the symbol of the resort is Poseidon’s trident, which symbolizes his mastery over the water. The trident also serves as a point system for grading individual resorts… the ones with five tridents being the most luxurious. One of the GO’s at Vittel told me that the trident also represents spear fishing, which was one of the original sports at Club Med.

I have visited a few of the resorts, the most recent being the one in Vittel, France. This year marks the resort’s 40th anniversary, so the spirit there was quite festive. Many of the guests there were regulars, with most coming from France and Belgium.

Vittel

Vittel Water

The resort itself was beautiful, even though it was not on the water. (We chose it because it was close to Germany, where we had tucked away our 16-year-old in soccer camp for two weeks.) Our rooms were located in the former Grand Hotel, since the Palace is now used to accommodate the GO’s. At first, we were disappointed not to be in the Palace – until we found out many of the rooms had nightly visitors: bats!

The kids had a blast. We signed them up for the Mini Club, but they only went for a couple of days. They preferred to hang with us – sleeping in til 10:00, then leisurely deciding what to do… either swimming, playing soccer or tennis, roller blading or archery.

Every evening at around 5:00, everyone would congregate out on the bar patio for drinks and snacks, and there would be a band playing or the GO’s would put on a performance of some kind.

Club Med is a great choice for people who are active and social. And if you have kids, there are children’s camps at many of their locations so you don’t have to spend your entire vacation trying to entertain them. The kids can go when they you want, leaving you to do other things. Everyone is happy!

Club Med Skit
GO Afternoon Skit
Vittel Skit

Vittel Water Skit

To me, Club Med represents everything that is good about vacation. When you choose to go to one of the villages,  you become part of the “club.” You leave the world behind, and since it is all-inclusive, you don’t have to worry about money – food, drinks and even most activities are covered. So it’s really a no-brainer…..you are guaranteed to have fun! And in the end, isn’t that what a vacation is supposed to be all about?

My sweet step-daughter

VIVE VACANCES! 🙂

Where do you like to go on vacation? Please share your favorite spots…..

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