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6 Tips to Overcome the Monster in the Closet: Procrastination

the monster in the closet I’ve been thinking about fighting procrastination lately. It’s one of the monsters I battle almost every day. Give me a distraction and I will embrace it like a lover. I can’t help it. Even if I actually want to do a particular project, nine times out of ten I will still procrastinate. It’s in my nature.

At the moment, I’m procrastinating about the novel I’m working on. I started out strong … the first three chapters practically wrote themselves. Nevertheless, every time I sit down at my computer, the monster comes out of the closet and sits beside me, whispering in my ear

What’s happening on Facebook (or Twitter)? or

I wonder what new properties have come on the market downtown (or in the south of France)? or

Whose turn is it in Words With Friends?

It is getting ridiculous!

So, I rifled through some old Feng Shui articles looking for advice, and I came away with some great tips to help deal with procrastination. If you’re reading this, you may very well be procrastinating yourself. If you are, think about what it is you are procrastinating about and how you can relate it to the following:

  1. First, determine if the thing you are procrastinating about is important to YOU. If it’s not, why even bother with it?
  2. Rethink your purpose. Are you thinking that you “have to” do it?  Just thinking that you “have to” do something puts a heavy energy on it. No one wants to do something they’re being told they have to do. You need to either find a way for it to be something you choose to do, or you can simply choose not to do it. Always remember that you are free to make the choice…..even if there will be consequences to face later.
  3. Don’t be a perfectionist. As a writer, that is my biggest energy drain. I want what I put down to be perfect from the start. So I don’t even start. Just do it! Once you begin, the energy will flow and you will have something to work with, even if it needs a lot of tweaking (or in my case, editing).
  4. Break large projects down into smaller tasks. For me, I know I can’t knock out the book in one sitting. I have to concentrate on chapters, or even parts of chapters. If you need to, say, get your taxes done (the “project”), start by collecting all your credit card receipts (a “task”). Allocate 30 minutes to the task. Then make a list of all the tasks associated with the project, and schedule 30 minutes a day to work on each of them. Suddenly, what once seemed daunting will now seem doable.
  5. Plan some fun time. Work it into your schedule so you don’t feel deprived. Whether it’s time alone, time with your friends or family, time to play games or surf the net – just make sure you make time for it. Then once you’ve done that, get to the 30-minute task that is associated with your project. When the 30 minutes is up, reward yourself by doing something you want to do (like seeing what’s popular on Pinterest).
  6. Stay motivated. If you need to, tell someone what you plan to do. That way, you become accountable, and you will be more likely to do it. Believe me, you don’t want to have to tell someone you spent the last half hour watching cute videos of  sleeping puppies instead of working on that outline.

Remember: procrastination can be overcome. People often procrastinate because they have started to think of what they need to do as something unpleasant. The negative energy associated with a project makes it harder and harder to accomplish. By rethinking your purpose – that is, thinking of your project as being something positive – and following the other tips above, you will be able to generate the good energy you need to get things done.

And 30 minutes? Totally doable! Anyone can do something for 30 minutes.

Now, where did that sneaky muse disappear to?

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Show Me the Money

Wad of money

photo credit: Refracted Moments™ via photopin cc

Are you living an abundant life? Are you happy with your finances, your relationships, your health? If not, your home or office may be working against you.  But don’t worry, you can apply feng shui principles to boost your prosperity as well as success in all areas of your life.

The first thing you have to do, of course, is map the Bagua. The Bagua is an energy template representing your whole life. It’s your starting point in feng shui. Each area of the Bagua represents an aspect of your life. You can use it to enhance and change your physical space, and thereby enhance and change what that particular area corresponds to in your life. If there is an area missing in the Bagua, that aspect of your life is not being energized. Unfortunately, the Wealth & Prosperity area is one that is commonly missing.

Once you have mapped the Bagua accurately, you can investigate your environment to see which areas may be blocked and therefore affecting your success. If you don’t have it correctly mapped, any feng shui you apply will be a waste of time. In fact,  you could be creating even more disharmony in your life.

Your life reflects the flow of energy in your environment. 

Are all areas of your life being energized to support your success? If not, here are five ways to use the Bagua to help increase the flow of abundance in your life:

 1. Look for the greatest area of clutter in your home.

Cluttered room photo credit: Sudipto_Sarkar via photopin cc

Which area of the Bagua is it in? Is it in the Wealth area, or perhaps the Creativity area? If so, you’ll know this is directly impacting your prosperity, or perhaps your ability to complete a project or come up with a creative solution to a problem. The clutter may well explain why energy seems to be stuck in that area, and will give you an added incentive to clear tit out. Once you have the clutter cleared, you can place an enhancement in that area – something that represents abundance or creativity to you.

2. Use the Life Wheel to see where your life is out of balance. 

life wheel

The Life Wheel is like a snapshot of your life at any given moment. It helps you to see how you are doing in the areas of your life that are important to you (i.e. family, spirituality, wealth). In turn, it allows you to pinpoint where you may be off balance. Just fill in each segment according to how satisfied you are with that area of your life at the moment. Once you discover problem areas, you can then use the Bagua to go to that area of your home and start investigating. Is there clutter there? Perhaps in your Relationship area you have images of single women or men, and you’d really like to attract your perfect partner. In the Wealth & Prosperity Area you may find a broken clock. This will be blocking the flow of energy there. Using the Life Wheel and Bagua together will help you find clues as to what may not be in alignment with your desires.

3. Create a greater flow of abundance. 

Check the Wealth & Prosperity area in your home. Does this area represent what you want more of? Do you have your bills in your Wealth area, for example? Are there dead plants in the Health area? Get rid of anything that may be blocking the good energy of a room!

Because all areas are connected, boosting the energy flow in any one area of your home will impact your abundance in all areas.

4. Turn financial challenges around. 

Act like a detective. What can you find in your Wealth area that may symbolize struggle or lack. Perhaps there’s a dark corner or perhaps it’s in a very cluttered garage. Is this where you keep the cat’s litter box? Make sure this area is clean and tidy and enhance it with tokens or pictures of what you hope to achieve.

5. Check for missing areas.

Most homes are not a perfect square or rectangle, which means there will be missing areas. This will result in parts of your life not being energized. In that case, you may need help to map the Bagua, since there are feng shui rules as to when certain features such as garages, patios, balconies, etc. should be included. The good news is that once you know how to map the Bagua, you can easily address those missing areas so the energy of your home will be “whole” again and all aspects of your life will be supported and flow abundantly.

Start small. Print out or draw a Bagua Map and walk around your house. Get familiar with the different areas. Then you can follow the five steps above to help get that good energy flowing, both in your space and in your life.

For more about Feng Shui and bringing luck into your home, read this.

Do you have any tips for enhancing your abundance? If so, please share!

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