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6 Tips to Overcome the Monster in the Closet: Procrastination

the monster in the closet I’ve been thinking about fighting procrastination lately. It’s one of the monsters I battle almost every day. Give me a distraction and I will embrace it like a lover. I can’t help it. Even if I actually want to do a particular project, nine times out of ten I will still procrastinate. It’s in my nature.

At the moment, I’m procrastinating about the novel I’m working on. I started out strong … the first three chapters practically wrote themselves. Nevertheless, every time I sit down at my computer, the monster comes out of the closet and sits beside me, whispering in my ear

What’s happening on Facebook (or Twitter)? or

I wonder what new properties have come on the market downtown (or in the south of France)? or

Whose turn is it in Words With Friends?

It is getting ridiculous!

So, I rifled through some old Feng Shui articles looking for advice, and I came away with some great tips to help deal with procrastination. If you’re reading this, you may very well be procrastinating yourself. If you are, think about what it is you are procrastinating about and how you can relate it to the following:

  1. First, determine if the thing you are procrastinating about is important to YOU. If it’s not, why even bother with it?
  2. Rethink your purpose. Are you thinking that you “have to” do it?  Just thinking that you “have to” do something puts a heavy energy on it. No one wants to do something they’re being told they have to do. You need to either find a way for it to be something you choose to do, or you can simply choose not to do it. Always remember that you are free to make the choice…..even if there will be consequences to face later.
  3. Don’t be a perfectionist. As a writer, that is my biggest energy drain. I want what I put down to be perfect from the start. So I don’t even start. Just do it! Once you begin, the energy will flow and you will have something to work with, even if it needs a lot of tweaking (or in my case, editing).
  4. Break large projects down into smaller tasks. For me, I know I can’t knock out the book in one sitting. I have to concentrate on chapters, or even parts of chapters. If you need to, say, get your taxes done (the “project”), start by collecting all your credit card receipts (a “task”). Allocate 30 minutes to the task. Then make a list of all the tasks associated with the project, and schedule 30 minutes a day to work on each of them. Suddenly, what once seemed daunting will now seem doable.
  5. Plan some fun time. Work it into your schedule so you don’t feel deprived. Whether it’s time alone, time with your friends or family, time to play games or surf the net – just make sure you make time for it. Then once you’ve done that, get to the 30-minute task that is associated with your project. When the 30 minutes is up, reward yourself by doing something you want to do (like seeing what’s popular on Pinterest).
  6. Stay motivated. If you need to, tell someone what you plan to do. That way, you become accountable, and you will be more likely to do it. Believe me, you don’t want to have to tell someone you spent the last half hour watching cute videos of  sleeping puppies instead of working on that outline.

Remember: procrastination can be overcome. People often procrastinate because they have started to think of what they need to do as something unpleasant. The negative energy associated with a project makes it harder and harder to accomplish. By rethinking your purpose – that is, thinking of your project as being something positive – and following the other tips above, you will be able to generate the good energy you need to get things done.

And 30 minutes? Totally doable! Anyone can do something for 30 minutes.

Now, where did that sneaky muse disappear to?

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Connecting With Your Creative Muse

I am an “idea” person. Always have been. Always will be.

I come up with ideas all the time. My big problem is following through on them. Making them happen.

For example, I have been juggling a few book ideas in my head the past weeks.  I’ve started two and started research on the third.

Today I started thinking about a completely different book. I need my Muse to FOCUS!

Hesiod and the Muse

Hesiod and the Muse (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

So I dug through some old articles and came across just the one to help me get in the groove again. I thought I’d share….

Five Inner Feng Shui Tips for Connecting with your Inner Muse

1. Learn from Yoga: in yoga the restorative poses are the most difficult. Why? They’re the ones where it looks like you’re doing nothing. You may be lying with your butt against the wall with your legs up the wall. You may be folded over a bolster with your head touching your knees. And you stay like that for many minutes. They’re the hardest because you’re so used to being busy and doing something.

It takes a certain stillness to discover what’s wanting to be expressed.

To connect with your muse and restore your SELF takes being present, being in your body and just being. And this is a scary thing for most of us. It’s the stillness. “Shouldn’t you be doing something?” the voices scream.

Action Step: Start small. Take some time to ‘be.’ Thinking, day dreaming, doodling – they are all part of the creative process and will start exercising that creative muscle. Discover what you’re thinking and feeling. Just for you. Schedule it if you need to!

2. Create a Sacred Space: There is a reason both children and creativity come together in the Children & Creativity Gua. (To see where this area is in your home, read this.) This area is where one can go about birthing the self. It’s about play and joy and being an artist – all those things children naturally are until they’re told what to think. And then years later, even in a creative business, they search for fulfillment in the midst of busyness, having forgotten where their creativity really lives. If you had the perfect environment to create in, what would it look like? What would it feel like? What would inspire you? What would you surround yourself with? Remember, it can be however you wish. Write or draw how it would be.

Action Step: Whether you have a whole room or a small part of a room, take the essence of what you dreamed up for your sacred space and add it to your space. Perhaps a candle, an inspiring photo, your favorite mug, a clear table top, a comfortable chair and cozy blanket. Whatever nurtures that playful, curious, imagination of yours.

***A great enhancement for the Children & Creativity area of your home (or part of a room) is a child’s drawing or painting. ***

3. Remove Distractions.

What’s distracting you? Commitments you wish you hadn’t made? Too many trips to the supermarket because you’re not as organized as you could be? People who deplete your energy? Checking e-mails a million times a day? Too much clutter? List five distractions in your life.

What would you have the time, energy and space for if these were gone? Nurturing your creativity is way more important than doing something that drains your energy. Your creative muse is calling you.

Action Step: Today, choose one distraction and handle it. Now, take the time it frees up, to ‘be’- whether in nature, sitting in your sacred space or grabbing a pen or your laptop and writing whatever comes to mind.

4. Remove Clutter: The Children & Creativity area is the one area where clutter is allowed – but I’m talking about the kind of clutter that comes from having all your creative materials around you to mess with. They can be disorganized and messy  but if that inspires you to create then it’s okay.

However, there’s another type of clutter which is what you may be more used to – papers, things from the past, disorganized chaos when things aren’t where they belong, a desk that’s full of books, even creative materials that sit unused for weeks or months on end. If you’re surrounded by clutter, you can’t even think clearly, let alone tap into that deep part of you that’s tender and raw and just waiting to come out.

Fast Action Step: No need to wait. Get a box and scoop up everything on your desk, or in your sacred space – temporarily. This gives you a clear space to call on your muse, to discover what you’re waiting to say. That’s what’s important. Then later go through the box and save what you love and chuck the rest. No need to do the whole room right now – that’s a great way to sabotage yourself.

5. Act like a child: Children play, they mess around, they dream, their imaginations run wild, they’re curious. Children know they’re creative….they’re writers, they’re artists. And that’s how it is.

It’s the rest of us who need reminding. We’ve forgotten how to play, and forgotten that what makes us unique is the thing we’re here to express.

“Two boys arrived yesterday with a pebble they said was the head of a dog until I pointed out that really it was a typewriter.” — Pablo Picasso

Action Step: Spend time with a child. See the world from their view. Take 10 minutes to walk a few feet, looking at every little bug along the way. Be curious and open up to the world you may have forgotten in your busy, adult life.

Connect with your creative muse and you’ll be nourishing a deep part of yourself. As a bonus, the creativity you use in your work with others will be enhanced. You may even find that you’ll boost the bottom line in your business.

(Adapted from an article by Vicky White ©Copyright 2009 Life Design Strategies)

Here is another great post on cultivating creativity: http://www.karanbajaj.com/writing-creativity/5-ways-to-become-more-creative/

So tell me, how do YOU connect with your creative muse? Please share your thoughts.

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